What Do We Own?
This morning I was thinking about this artist I knew when I was younger and just starting out in the creative world. He was about fifteen years older than me, miles ahead in the development of his voice, so I looked up to him. He was a friend’s boyfriend, so I was more of a friend of a friend to him, but I suppose I felt I knew him better than I did because she would talk about their relationship with me.
This was nearly two decades ago, in Brooklyn.
He was someone who worked obsessively and achieved more recognition than sales. He was a name, and he knew a lot of people, and he had gallery shows, but would only sell a few big pieces a year. He was known better in Europe than in America, maybe. Not a terrible place to be known. He had a specific vision and a singular voice and was just wildly talented and respected. It felt like he truly owned his art. Yet he barely got by financially for years and years. I don’t know if it bothered him, but it seemed like he accepted it.
Again, this was from afar, and translated through my friend, but I found his story tantalizing and inspiring. He was punk rock to the core. I was not yet committed to writing like I am now or even was a few years after I met him. It was important for me to see people doing that kind of work. Visual artists and writers have different concerns in some ways, but all artists need to be obsessed to get anywhere.
Also, I needed to learn that financial success, making a living as artist, that desire had to be secondary. Don’t get me wrong - we should absolutely get compensated for our work. I don’t believe in the idea of exposure as payment, for example. Pay me can be a helpful mantra. I think it’s healthy to have working toward publication as one of your end goals. Through knowing him, though, I learned that it was hard to make a living as an artist and only if you loved it like no other should you proceed. He was like a trail map that cautions you on conditions ahead. But oh, that viewpoint in the distance.
Eventually he and my friend broke up. I don’t think I saw him for a few years. Maybe at an art show in Bushwick or something. Finally, I wrote a book, and was trying to sell it. I was ready to become a working artist barely getting by myself. But I had loved writing that book. Being that person. I was 34 years old.
On New Year’s Day that year, my friend called me, distraught. The artist had died, tragically, in a motorcycle accident. It was devastating news.
Can you guess what happened next? The value of his artwork shot through the roof. It was hard not to wonder how he would have felt about it all.
A few years later, I wrote a novel about a woman tending to her artist husband who was in a coma. She is living off the proceeds of selling off his now-valuable artwork. The book is primarily about the woman, and her struggle to move on from her life with him, and the people she meets who help her along the way. The artist character in the book is not the artist I knew (the artist character in the book is a careless philanderer, for starters) but of course I was inspired by him. Then, in the writing of that book, and now, always, by the idea of someone who loved to make his work in such a pure way.
I am mostly thinking about this this morning because I am in this phase of having to talk about myself a little more than I’d like to promote my forthcoming book. I am looking at my schedule ahead and remembering there’s always a time where I arrive at being just so sick of myself, because we aren’t meant to answer all these questions or talk about ourselves out loud so much. (This is one reason why I had zero interest in recording my audio book – I thought my head might split in two.)
So I try and remember that feeling of being young and hungry and inspired and grateful and ambitious not to be known but simply to make great (or good, sometimes, anyway) art. The ambition should be in the work, always. And I think about being impressed by someone who already knew their voice. The goal of trying to access it. The stew of ideas that drove me then are still at my core.
It’s invigorating to remember who we once were, why we started these projects of ours. To recall our goals, no matter where we are in the process, early in our careers or later.
Dig deep, can you remember what inspired you to start writing in the first place? Who you admired, what your influences are? Is today a good time to make a list, even if it’s just to have one to check back on in the future? Always remember that energy. What do we own? I think about it all the time. Our words, our history, and our dreams.
I’m opening the comments today so you can declare some of your early inspirations and influences.
Have a nice Sunday.
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